Blessings

What are your thoughts about Destiny?

It is an interesting concept to ponder. I want to share a Destiny story with you. 

My 3rd husband  and I felt it was destiny that brought us together time and time again.  We  had known each other throughout our lives, our families were friends.  We became the best of  friends during our junior year of high school. We both were involved in other intimate relationships and yet our  friendship remained deeply connected.

There was a moment at our graduation party that we decided to take it to the next step. We intimately and passionately explored each other that night. It was ecstatic bliss like I had never felt before and the tears of pure joy rolled down my check. It touched my soul so deeply and I knew it was love.
Eternal love.


But alas,  we went our separate ways.

HE left our home town to go to school in another state. I remained to begin my college experience.  Of course, I met another man, got pregnant and decided to run away to Texas to “go to school” rather than tell my family.


On the drive to Texas, I saw HIM driving on the freeway in Arizona. It was a magical moment of gentle connection as he was turning and I was driving on. 

We did keet in touch through letters through the years. 

I came home to have the baby and married her father. It was a tumultuous relationship to say the least.


HE finished school in Arizona and returned to our hometown. And one fateful night we came together again. I cheated on my husband and spent the night with HIM. Again those deep pangs of love welled up and I knew this was really meant to be. But I didn’t know how to do it.
There was so much that happened in those moments of tenderness and I had to leave HIM to return home to my daughter and 1st husband. My heart ached but I could not find a way out. 

Another year would go by, another baby born and finally  I found the courage and strength to break away from husband #1.


As I got divorced,  HE got engaged.
I went to their wedding and cried. We both honored HIS vows and HE never cheated on HIS wife.
they had a baby. Interestingly, enough I was pregnant at that same time but lost that baby at 16 weeks. 

I went on with life and we continued to stay in touch. There was this bond, that we continued to feel and were not able to act upon it. until....

HE and his wife separated.

It was our 10 year reunion, this time we decided it was our time to be together.
We married, we raised three kids plus my brother. Our house was full, full of love and all the things wonderful. 

It was as if we were fulfilling our DESTINY..... until


But I fell into a deep, dark place that I just couldn’t escape. It tore us apart.
I had to leave this marriage and live my life without HIM. I needed to take care of me. 


It took us several years to finally end that part of our relationship.
Today we are friends. We are parents to those adult kids and we are grandparents to 6 grandkids. He is in a beautiful, loving relationship and so am I. 
I believe each relationship teaches me how to LOVE bigger and bigger. 


Life is full of  twists and turns and perhaps it is all meant to be just as it is.


Is DESTINY real?

That is for you to decide.

 

There are Infinite Possibilities which step will you take today?

 

 


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With Love
Blessings to you, 

Lisa

 Certified Tantra Educator
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